The Family

The Bennett Line

Seven generations across two continents. Every person on this tree is documented in the primary record. Click any card to see the sources.

Doug Waidelich descends from Edward Bennett and his first wife Elizabeth Ellison, through their only child Elizabeth (Lizzie) Bennett Shadbolt. Janet Hume — the "My Dear Wife" of the 1864 letters — was Edward’s second wife and stepmother to Lizzie. Her Hume family appears here because they are part of the book, but they are not in Doug’s blood line.

A note on scope. This is a first pass, built from the seven Find a Grave records the author has already verified plus the research notes cited in the book. Everyone on this tree has a documented source. Anyone whose relationship is known but whose dates or details are unclear is not yet included — we would rather show fewer people accurately than a bigger tree with question marks. As sources are added, so are people.
Generation I
Lancashire, England · late 1700s to mid 1800s
JB
James Bennett
1791 – 1870
Edward's father
Details

Born: 1791, Lancashire, England

Died: 1870, Lancashire, England

Home: Foxhill Bank, Lancashire

Children: Twelve, of whom Edward was one

Edward's father, remembered in his son's obituary as head of a family of twelve children in Lancashire. James and Sarah did not follow their son to America.

Source: Edward Bennett obituary (Find a Grave Memorial #97544882). Confidence: medium — based on obituary text, no baptism record reviewed.

married
SB
Sarah "Sally" Higgenbottom Bennett
1790 – 1860
Edward's mother
Details

Born: 1790, Lancashire, England

Died: 1860, Lancashire, England

Maiden name: Higgenbottom

Sarah is named in Edward's obituary as one of the parents of the twelve Bennett children. She had been dead for twelve years by the time Edward marched south with the 23rd Wisconsin.

Source: Edward Bennett obituary (Find a Grave Memorial #97544882). Confidence: medium.

Generation II
Lancashire → Wisconsin → Iowa · 1831 to 1929
EE
Elizabeth Ellison Bennett
1835 – 1857
Edward's first wife · Doug's direct ancestor
Details

Born: 1835, Whalley, Lancashire, England

Married Edward: May 2, 1856, Moundville, Wisconsin

Died: April 1857, Moundville, Wisconsin (age 21)

Buried: Moundville Cemetery, Endeavor, Marquette County, WI

Parents: Martin G. Ellison Sr. (1808–1878) · Alice Houlker Ellison (1806–1882)

Both English-born, both from Lancashire. Elizabeth died within days of the birth of her only child. Her parents outlived her by more than twenty years but never met their granddaughter as an adult.

Book: Ch 2, Ch 12 closing

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #102632746. Confidence: high.

EB
Edward Bennett
1831 – 1922
The soldier · the book's principal subject
Details

Born: July 6, 1831, Foxhill Bank, Lancashire, England

Emigrated: ca. 1848, age 17

Baptized: May 1852, Fox River, Wisconsin (Rev. Thurston)

Enlisted: February 20, 1864, Portage, Wisconsin

Unit: Co. C, 23rd Wisconsin Volunteer Infantry

Discharged: January 1866

Died: February 13, 1922 (age 90), Charles City, Iowa

Buried: Lynwood Cemetery, Clarksville, Iowa

Farmer, husband twice over, Baptist churchman, Sunday school superintendent, town assessor. Marched through the Red River campaign, helped build Bailey's Dam at Alexandria, fought at Fort Blakely on the day of Lee's surrender, walked into Mobile in the last week of the war. Rewrote his war diary in a clean hand at seventy so that the record would remain legible. He is the man UNSILENCED brings back to speech.

Book: All chapters

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #97544882; regimental records; April 25 1864 letter (family collection). Confidence: high.

JH
Janet Hume Bennett
1839 – 1929
Edward's second wife · "My Dear Wife" of the letters
Details

Born: November 8, 1839, Hamilton, Scotland

Immigrated: 1850 (age 10), 8-week voyage to Portage, WI

Baptized: May 1857, Portage Baptist Church (Rev. Thurston)

Married Edward: November 19, 1858

Children: Eleven named, plus one uncertain

Died: 1929 (age 89), Charles City, Iowa

Buried: Lynwood Cemetery, Clarksville, Iowa (beside Edward)

Janet raised her stepdaughter Lizzie as her own and bore eleven more children by Edward. Her obituary says she "cared for five children while Mr. Bennett served his country." She is the wartime wife of the surviving letters, the "My Dear Wife" of the April 25, 1864 letter written on the eve of the Red River march. She outlived Edward by seven years.

Book: Chapters 3–12; letters throughout

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #97544965; April 25 1864 letter. Confidence: high.

The Hume Family · Portage, Wisconsin
Janet's parents and brother · named in the letters
JH
James Hume Sr.
1811 – 1887
Janet's father · Edward's father-in-law
Details

Born: 1811, Scotland

Emigrated: 1850, with family to Portage, WI

Died: 1887

Present in Portage during the war years. Edward sends greetings to "your Father & Mother" in the April 25, 1864 letter — that is James and Ann Margaret.

Book: Ch 4, "your Father & Mother"

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #97544965 (Janet's memorial notes). Confidence: high.

married
AH
Ann Margaret Walker Hume
1803 – 1876
Janet's mother
Details

Born: 1803, Scotland

Died: 1876, before the family's Iowa move

Age 60 during the war years, alive in Portage while her daughter kept the household through Edward's service.

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #97544965. Confidence: high.

RH
Robert Walker Hume Sr.
dates unconfirmed
Janet's brother · "your Robert" of the letter
Details

Relation: Janet Hume's brother

Service: Wisconsin unit, Red River Campaign 1864

Named in Edward's April 25, 1864 letter as "your Robert." Serving in the same theater and campaign as Edward. Confirming his specific regiment (23rd Wisconsin or a sister unit) is one of the open research questions the book identifies.

Book: Ch 2, "your Robert"

Source: April 25 1864 letter (family collection); regiment identification pending. Confidence: high for relationship; unresolved for full biography.

JH
James Hume Jr.
1831 – 1911
Janet's older brother
Details

Born: 1831 (same year as Edward)

Died: 1911

Janet's older brother, in Wisconsin during the war years. Possibly the "James" of "James & Jane" in the letter, though that identification is not confirmed.

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #97544965. Confidence: medium.

Generation III
The child who carried the line · 1857 to 1930
EB
Elizabeth "Lizzie" Bennett Shadbolt
1857 – 1930
Edward's only child by Elizabeth Ellison · raised by Janet
Details

Born: April 12, 1857, Moundville, Wisconsin

Married: March 4, 1880, Shell Rock, Iowa

Died: January 12, 1930, Horton, Bremer County, IA

Lizzie was six years old when Edward enlisted. Her biological mother had died within days of her birth; Janet Hume was the only mother she remembered. She was the daughter who had her father's Civil War diary professionally bound circa 1901, so it would survive. It was through her that the diary and the letters descended to the Iowa branch of the family that eventually reached Doug.

Book: Ch 12 closing (the descent chain)

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #67666216. Confidence: high.

married 1880
AS
Albon Briggs Shadbolt
1858 – 1940
Lizzie's husband
Details

Born: 1858, Iowa

Married Lizzie: March 4, 1880, Shell Rock, IA

Died: 1940

Iowa farmer. He and Lizzie had three children who lived to adulthood, including Jessie Elizabeth — the grandmother Doug knew before her death in 1972.

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #67666216. Confidence: high.

Lizzie's siblings — the other children of Albon & Elizabeth Shadbolt 2 siblings
Mabel E. Shadbolt Ray
1882 – 1970
Elder sister; lived to 88.
Roland Ira Shadbolt
1885 – 1968
Elder brother.
Generation IV
The Iowa years · 1894 to 1979
JR
Jessie Elizabeth Shadbolt Richards
1894 – 1972
Doug's great-grandmother · kept the letters
Details

Born: September 8, 1894, Clarksville, Butler County, IA

Married: April 2, 1912, to George Harrison Richards

Children: Ten, including Marian (Doug's grandmother)

Died: August 19, 1972, Nashua, Chickasaw County, IA

Buried: Riverside Cemetery, Shell Rock, IA

Farm life through the middle of the twentieth century. Doug remembered her only faintly — a quiet elderly woman in a nursing home in Shell Rock. She was one of the women who kept the boxes of Edward's letters through the decades when no one else was asking after them.

Book: Ch 1, "the Jessie I knew"

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #55583075. Confidence: high.

married 1912
GR
George Harrison Richards
1888 – 1979
Jessie's husband
Details

Born: 1888

Married Jessie: April 2, 1912

Died: 1979 (age 91)

George's Richards family origins are still being researched; his family predates the Bennett line's connection to the Richards surname. His marriage to Jessie is where the Richards name entered Doug's ancestry.

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #55583075. Confidence: high for the marriage; medium for pre-1912 family origins.

Doug's grandmother Marian and her siblings — the Richards children 8 documented
Clyde Willard Richards
1912 – 1916
First child; died at age 4.
Rual George Richards
1913 – 2001
Second child; lived to 88.
Margaret Alene Richards Moine
1915 – 2006
Married a Moine; lived to 91.
Beryl Duane Richards
1916 – 1935
Died at age 19.
Roger Harold Richards
1917 – 1992
Lived to 75.
Joyce Maxine Richards Swinton
1919 – 1999
Marian's sister who came with her to Jessie's attic in December 1975 — the "her sister Joyce" of Chapter 1.
Marian Mae Richards Zwanziger
1920 – 2003
Doug's grandmother; carries the line.
Elizabeth Jeanette "Betty" Richards
1923 – 2013
Youngest known; lived to 89.

Note: The research file records that Jessie had ten children in total. Only eight appear on her Find a Grave memorial — two are undocumented and may have died in infancy. Sources: Find a Grave Memorial #55583075 (Jessie's memorial, Family Members section).

Generation V
Doug's grandparents · 1920 to 2008
MZ
Marian Mae Richards Zwanziger
1920 – 2003
Doug's grandmother · held the uniform against him
Details

Born: November 2, 1920, Bremer County, IA

Married: March 20, 1941, to Donald Kay Zwanziger

Career: Rural schoolteacher; Nashua Public School lunch program

Businesses: Don's Ranch House · the Dairy Sweet, Nashua

Died: July 24, 2003, New Hampton, IA

The grandmother of Chapter 1. It was Marian who came back to the farm from Jessie's attic in Shell Rock with two boxes of letters and a Civil War uniform in December 1975, and it was Marian who held the uniform up against ten-year-old Doug's body. She was Doug's introduction to Edward.

Book: Ch 1, the hay-mound scene

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #14518265. Confidence: high.

married 1941
DZ
Donald "Don" Kay Zwanziger
1921 – 2008
Doug's grandfather
Details

Born: 1921

Married Marian: March 20, 1941

Died: 2008 (age 87)

Farmer and businessman. Owner of the farm two miles north of the Nashua fairgrounds where Doug spent the better part of his boyhood. The hay mound of Chapter 1 was his barn.

Book: Ch 1, the farm

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #14518265 (Marian's memorial). Confidence: high.

Generation VI
Doug's parents · 1942 to 2018
DW
Donna Kathleen Zwanziger Waidelich
1943 – 1986
Doug's mother
Details

Born: July 9, 1943

Died: October 1986 (age 43), Bettendorf, Scott County, IA

Buried: Sunnyside Memory Gardens, Charles City, IA

The daughter who brought Edward's letters — and the story with them — into the household where Doug grew up. She predeceased her mother Marian by seventeen years.

Book: Ch 1, "my mother Donna"

Source: Find a Grave Memorial #132446173. Confidence: high.

married
BW
Robert "Bob" Waidelich
1942 – 2018
Doug's father
Details

Born: 1942

Died: 2018 (age 76)

Doug's father, husband of Donna Zwanziger.

Source: Family record (Find a Grave Memorial #132446173, Donna's memorial). Confidence: high for relationship; other biographical detail pending.

Generation VII
The descendant who read · living
DW
Doug Waidelich
1964 –
The great-great-great-grandson · author of UNSILENCED
Details

Born: December 16, 1964, Nashua, Iowa

First held the uniform: Christmas vacation 1975 (age 10)

First read the letter aloud: 2026

Current custodian: April 25, 1864 letter · the surviving originals

Six generations removed from Edward Bennett. The boy who stood in a Nashua farmhouse kitchen in 1975 with a Union uniform held up against his ten-year-old body, and the man who, fifty years later, finally read what the letters said.

Book: Author · Ch 1 · Acknowledgments · Ch 12 closing

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